Honesty
I’m often asked what I perceive the biggest problem that people are battling with today to be, when they call a psychic for a reading. Most people think I’ll say love & relationships, some guess it’s money or career at this time of economic difficulty but in most cases it not as complex or as difficult to solve as that. Most people’s problems are caused by other people not telling the the truth!
Many problems that cause people a life time of heart ache can be traced back to someone or a group of people who at some point decided not to tell the truth- or too ignore it! People fall out of love, or realise they made a bad choice to start with and instead of dealing with it- have affairs. Families keep deep dark secrets that cause it’s members enormous pain and problems that can stretch out over decades to come, people lie about money or who said or did what to whom. This is often the root cause of the much unhappiness that many people suffer today.
Don’t allow deceit to creep into or cloud your life, family or relationships- tell the truth instead!
Whilst it’s considered ok and maybe considered a harmless little white lie to tell Auntie Peggy she looks dapper in that dress that you think is awful, just to brighten her day- it’s not and should not be considered ok to lie to those you say you love to save your own hide from having to stand up and admit guilt and make things right, or to do so because you have a problem facing with and dealing with the truth. To keep Grans Birthday Party a secret so she gets a nice surprise if fine- to keep wrong doing secret or protect someone who has harmed others is not an ok secret to keep. Lies and secrets wreck lives…
It’s much easier to have a policy of honesty in your life- you don’t need to expend as much energy covering your tracks or to have as good a memory when you are being completely honest! Honour yourself and those around you by being honest, owning up to past mistakes and refusing to allow lies to fester. If you been or done wrong in the past- own up and say that you are sorry. That simple little word can make all the difference and may mean more to those around you than you can ever know.
