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Having a successful loving relationship in your life is difficult to manage
at the best of times!
Communication and being sensitive to your partners needs and wishes is a must,
as is love and mutual respect. It's sometimes hard to know exactly what your partner
is thinking or is feeling, this can lead to crossed wires and misunderstandings.
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You can ask for advice from friends and family, but they may be too close to
the situation to be objective. Their advice may not be neutral or helpful and
may be clouded by there own agenda. They may fail to tell you the honest truth
as they fear hurting you. Sometimes the truth is starring us in the face and the
smartest thing we could do would be to realise it's time to move on. it is also
true that, sometimes we have to ride the rough patches, hang on in there and fight
for what is right. We may mistakenly confuse our partner being emotionally withdrawn
because they are having difficulties, say at work, and wrongly come to the conclusion
that they are having an affair. We may also suspect an affair and be absolutely
right and unsure as to how to deal with it.
Is it sometimes difficult to know what to do?
All our Clairvoyants as well as having their own unique psychic abilities,
that they can employ to aid you in your confusion will be sensitive toward the
situation. MANY AS WELL AS BEING GENUINE PSYCHICS ,ARE ALSO HIGHLY QUALIFIED AND
SPECIALISED COUNSELLORS IN THE RELATIONSHIP FIELD.
Soul Mates.
A lot of trouble is caused by people not understanding this term.
It is my understanding that people feel that if it doesn't work out with someone
that they considered to be their Soul-Mate, that's it, zilch, zero, nothing!
This is so untrue. We have the chance in our lives of meeting ' many possible
Soul Mates'. Love will never be denied to you, perhaps however it is sometimes
delayed...Rest assured, you will get another chance.
Avoiding the pit falls.
I HAVE GOOD AND BAD NEWS HERE!
If you ever intend to befriend someone, fall in love or are born in to a family,
at some point you and they are going to make mistakes. At some point you will
get hurt, this cannot be avoided I'm afraid! You can however, choose to be careful
and keep these incidences to a minimum by taking heed of the following advice.
Never knowingly get involved with any one with dependency problems, e.g. drink,
drugs or gambling.
PROCEED WITH CAUTION.
Never get involved with any one known to be violent.
Don't become your loves counsellor
If someone tells you that ' they only want to be friends' take them at there
word. Do not pursue them!
Any one who is married/ lives with or pursues an old flame, whatever they tell
you to the contrary' IS NOT FREE TO HAVE A COMMITTED ONE TO ONE RELATIONSHIP WITH
YOU'
If you get involved with a married man, the chances are virtually 100% that
you will get hurt. MARRIED MEN VIRTUALLY NEVER LEAVE.
Never call/e-mail/text your ex whilst you are ' TIPSY' or unhappy, you will
always regret this action after.
NEVER BOTHER TO DATE ANYONE YOU DON'T TRUST.
Keep love and money as separate as possible.
NEVER LIE TO YOURSELF ABOUT THE POTENTIAL OF A RELATIONSHIP.
What is love , the right ingredients;
Caring about the happiness and well being of someone as well as and ,as much
as, yourself.
Honesty, Truth, Openness and Gentleness
Laughing together, Being there for each other
Care, Compromise and Compassion
A loving exchange of giving and receiving
Remember; their is no such thing as the perfect partner, there is however out
there, the perfect partner for you.
Virtually everyone over the age of 15, will have baggage and hang ups in this
area.If however someone appears to you to have a dirty great heavy sack load,
they are probably not ready as yet to have a relationship with you or anyone else!
WHEN IT IS NOT LOVE
If there is abuse in any form, physical, emotional, mentally or spiritually
if all the loving, compromise and giving is one way only
lies, dictates,constant struggle, control and bullying
fear , misery, a mere convenience and unhappiness
if you are forced to loose your ability to be true to yourself and feel like
the real you has been lost....
That is not love or healthy! Please go to our links page and get yourself any
help you need if you experience any of the above. We are also here of course,
to help you in any way we can.
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